You may be in a place where you have to make a sacrifice in order to get where you want to be. Not all that unfamiliar I know, but I would suggest that many times you manage to have your cake and eat it too. This is not one of those negotiable situations. You can stay as you are or make the sacrifice and make a move. Go within and be sure, ask yourself what will make you happy, not what will make others happy. My best advice is do what is best for you, even if you have to give up something to get there.