I get you love a good debate and I know you can align with many different points of view. It’s part of who you are, gather information, educate yourself and then decide where you want to stand. As new facts come in you might even change your position. This is all well and good as long as you are not reacting in anger or overreacting to someone who is trying to push your buttons. Take the high road, the calm and collected approach. You might need to get your detective or lawyer hat on in order to make things crystal clear.