It seems like you have sooo much on your mind and are working hard to accomplish things. Keep in mind if you keep allowing other people to add to your list, even though you are working as hard as you can the list will not get any shorter. It is well past time to make others do for themselves. Sometimes helping can be enabling a situation to continue that really should be resolved. For this month especially just pay attention to your own obligations and let others deal with theirs. You don’t have to be mean, just be firm.